Who Are You When You Date?

I’m funnier when I’m around Cris than when shopping with Lily.

I’m a better listener around Shivy than I am around my OWN boyfriend.

I like meeting up with Nathan because he makes me feel smarter than when I hang out with Nate–who has the IQ of a genius.

I see myself as funny Nando, listener Nando, caring Nando, bitch Nando–and each one is real and authentic. I’m like the Mexican Smurfs–one for each quality. Is it that I just haven’t been diagnosed properly? Could be. But I like to think these different aspects of my character make me 100% Nando. (but I still may need meds)

In dating–do you date Hank differently than Mario? Does Kiki bring something out in you that Amy never did?

Do we date differently depending on the person, the chemistry, or our needs?

MAYBE THE DATE WAS BAD BECAUSE THE PERSON YOU WERE OUT WITH SHOWED YOU ONLY “ONE SIDE” –THE NERVOUS SIDE, THE SHY SIDE, THE TENSE SIDE, THE DIRTIER/SEXY SIDE–AND THAT ONE SIDE OF THEM “REACTED” TO THE ONE SIDE OF YOU PRESENT.

So I ask, “Who are YOU when YOU date?”

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