The Dating Process is not hard, it's just that--a process--just like making strudel. I'm sure even Julia Child struggled with strudel--the woman struggled with speech--but I digress.
In my work journey, I recently attended a talk with a top level CEO at a top level advertising agency. He asked us the following question: How long does it take to get good at something?
The answer: 10,000 hours.
I applied that to dating. Have you put in your time? If so--and things are still horrible--it's time to analyze your process because...dating is a process.