TweetTweet You are the designer of your own catastrophe — especially when it comes to love. What new love designs are you working on? He’s not moving fast enough? Who made you the pace keeper? She’s not the total package? Honey, have you seen the wrapping paper you come in? I need someone who understands me 100%. Mind readers are [...]

TweetTweet Dr. Diana Kirschner was a frequent guest on The Today Show and starred in the PBS TV Special Finding Your Own True Love. She is the best-selling author of Love in 90 Daysand—just out now on Kindle— Find Your Soulmate Online in Six Simple Steps.  Dr. Diana has helped thousands all over the world use online dating in the most wonderful way—to find a passionate lasting [...]

TweetTweet Today, we celebrate fast: fast food, fast internet, fast times. Does this mean we have lost the appreciation of slow? Slow seems to be an art form we no longer care for. Sure we can quickly update a status through a phone in under 2 minutes or retweet someone in less than 30 seconds, but what happened to slow? [...]

TweetTweet Hang around long enough and things that were once new and shiny, like social media, become a part of your everyday life. Remember a few years ago when movies/sitcoms would mention Facebook or Twitter and it would get a laugh? Currently, we don’t notice such dialogue because Facebook and Twitter are everywhere. And when something becomes an occurrence, they will [...]

TweetTweet DNA consists of the substance that carries the genetic coding of every living organism. Our Dating DNA is the foundation that carries our beliefs of how a date/relationship should be experienced. You can change your Dating DNA to create a better outcome in your dating/relationship–but has someone told Jennifer Lopez? Jennifer Lopez and many of you out there suffer [...]

TweetTweet I grew up watching game shows; anything that involved spinning a wheel vertically, horizontally, slapping buzzers, or just spitting out answers–I watched, with great interest. And I was fascinated with the idea of–even the people who lost walked away with a consolation prize. Sure, it might be a months supply of Rice a Roni (The San Francisco treat) as [...]

TweetTweet When you judge someone else’s relationship–good or bad, you use the following criteria: Your background Your experiences (good or bad) The episodes of Days of our Live you have stored in your mind (or any other media influence) Your personal love history How fair is it that you cast  judgement on someone else’s connection? What works for you might [...]

TweetTweet Dear Nandoism Readers, Oscar and I have been dating for 6 months and his friends are total jerks. We don’t always hang out with them but on the rare occasion that we do, they make me feel uncomfortable and the worst part is that he never says anything to them. Should he stand up for me when he sees [...]

TweetTweet Dear Nandoism Readers, I’ve been in a few relationships with guys but they seem to only last 3 months or less. Can I even call that a relationship? I don’t want to be single all my life. If I had to pin point one reason why I think my relationships don’t work I would say it’s because I feel [...]

TweetTweet Dear Nandoism Readers: Nando, I’ve been reading your posts on having a Gay Best Friend and know you’re writing a book on the topic and it gets me excited to think of having my own Gay Best Friend, and don’t worry, I read your last article on GBFs are not a fashion accessory, so I know not to treat [...]