It’s a Friday morning and I woke up in the usual manner–checking to see how many Twitter followers I had lost (I know, I’m a sad, sad Mexican). Then my boyfriend’s alarm went off–and why he chooses barking dogs as his alarm is beyond me–so I nudged him to wake up and shut his iPhone off. As he stumbled out of bed and headed to the bathroom, I continued my Twitter escapades. He entered the room, still groggy and slow-poked his way to get dressed. It was quiet, I looked up from my iPhone and closed my tweet deck app; he was standing in front of me–he looked really handsome. He leaned in for a kiss and said goodbye, and I extended my arms to hug him and when he saw my scrawny arms coming towards him…he jerked back. He rejected my hug.
Nando: I wanted a hug. Why won’t you hug me?
Boyfriend: mumble mumble mumble (I think something in Spanish and then a word or two in English)
And there you have it. The life of a Mexican Gay couple living in Brooklyn. I have no idea why he’s upset and why he didn’t embrace my hug–no pun intended. And before I began the montage of “woe-is-me” with Celine Dion song playing in my head, I’m faced with three choices and I need your help.
As a dating, relationship and sex blogger–I’d like to know if this has ever happened to you and how you handled it. How did it make you feel? Did you cancel Echilada Friday too? Has your Boyfriend ever rejected your hugs, kisses, bad breath? Leave a comment–and tell me, what should I do. Don’t forget to answer the poll.
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Breathe and let it go. I wouldn’t get too stressed. He clearly just got out of the wrong side of bed. If he continues to be weird about other things, or does it again in the near future then I would stress. Otherwise, just chill. Don’t sweat it just yet.
He was probably just in a moody head space…
.-= Twanji Kalula´s last blog ..Dot Com =-.
I agree with Twanji Kalula, I would try not to worry your pretty little head about it
I say this because I get in those moods too, where I pull away. No reason, just the mood. And it pissed off my ex that I couldn’t explain why, but I just wanted him to leave me alone for a bit until I got back into sorts. Nothing he did, it’s just me.
Basically, sometimes I act like a bitchy cat, and the claws come out for no apparent reason. But then I’m normal again soon and want to snuggle!
.-= Man-shopper´s last blog ..Mr Metro Accoster =-.
Nando – let it go!! He just wasn’t feeling it today, hug him later. You should be happy that he’s not just going thru the motions when he’s not feeling it.
I just hug myself. Ten times fast.
.-= LoveintheDumps´s last blog ..Kiss first =-.
Sometimes in the morning my hubby is so sleepy and beyond anything human he’s just trying to get enough energy to get out the door. He’s in the no hug zone.
this has happened t me before! I was at a rehearsal, and my friend told me he wanted a hug, so i walk over, stand there, and wait for him to make the move, then he suddenly pulled away an said “NO! NO!”
so i was sad.
Well–it got better.
Thanks for the comment — you just rocked my world!