The Re-Launching of Gay

Diversity is the spice of life–despite what garlic lover’s tell you. And in that diverse way of living, thinking, and being–we celebrate our differences. You can get a room full of 100 people and have them take the Coke challenge–no, I’m not talking that kind of coke (Wall Street bankers, stop salivating), I’m referring to the soft drink. And at the end of the day, after everyone...

How’s Your Gaydar?

Just like masturbation,fine-tuning your gaydar is a skill, but is it possible for a gay man to have his internal gay compass permanently on the fritz? If you ask me to make a grilled cheese sandwich, cut your bangs, or even snip your baby’s umbilical cord, I’ll show up and perform my duty with precision, ease and confidence. Yes, I’ve cut an umbilical cord, but that’s another blog and...

Gay Dating for Dummies

A few months ago a friend of mine paid me a visit; good old promiscuous Jack. During his stay, he participated in a few sexual escapades in Central Park,  had anonymous sex in the bathrooms of Washington Square and told me about his little fling in the raunchiest bar in New York City, Rawhide. As he entertained me with stories of  his conquests, I couldn’t help but notice a little sadness in his tone. See,...

How To Tell If A Man Is Gay

With so many women always asking, “How To Tell If A Man Is Gay?” I can continue to write on this topic indefinitely. But I wanted this post to focus on dating profiles. My feeling is if I can help you pinpoint the men in the closet or the ones in denial about their sexuality–I have done my job and you no longer have to wonder, “How do you know if a guy is gay?” The top 5 signs the...

Can A Gay Man Be Straight?

This is a guest post by the fabulous and always awesome Lisa Morris Frame, author of her own blog, A Daily Pinch. Can a gay man turn straight? Read along as Lisa dishes about her own love affairs with her gay men in this witty, sharp and poignant post. —————- I grew up in Western North Carolina. Small town gal, small town people, small town living. Little did I know there was a whole...