Nandoism’s 7 Link Blog Post

Seems like everyone and their gandmama did the 7 link post that was recommended by Darren at ProBlogger. He dared everyone to participate in a 7 Link Challenge, asking us to link to seven posts that fit into seven categories he created. The idea is to help new readers (coming to your blog) to discover content they may have missed, while also providing a quick archive references to some of your favorites for new...

Breaking the Gay-Love Routine

Gay men rule. We bring a spark to the wold, a glittery shine that otherwise would be missing in this dark, gloomy place we call Earth. Give us a potato and an onion and we’ll put Martha Stewart to shame by creating a flamboyant celebratory meal that’s delicious, sexy and finger-licking-good! Hand us an difficult project at work and not only will we meet deadline, but we’ll place neon-pink post-its...

Do You Deserve a Relationship?

Still flying high because of my new relationship with Santiago, I met a friend for breakfast but soon after sitting down, she pointed out the permanent smile on my face. And so naturally, the topic changed to him and all the fun times we’re sharing and how waking up next to him feels like the best thing ever. That’s when she interrupted me with cold hard slap. Shelby: It sounds great, too bad you feel...

My First Date: Under His Umbrella

New York City has the best offerings a city can have. Whether you’re looking for a job, an apartment, or even a new boyfriend–what you discover here will always be one-of-a-kind and just as you’re about to give up the relentless search, the one thing you’ve been looking for–ends up finding you. This past Tuesday was a big day for me because I had a meeting with a literary agent who...

Gay Dating for Dummies

A few months ago a friend of mine paid me a visit; good old promiscuous Jack. During his stay, he participated in a few sexual escapades in Central Park,  had anonymous sex in the bathrooms of Washington Square and told me about his little fling in the raunchiest bar in New York City, Rawhide. As he entertained me with stories of  his conquests, I couldn’t help but notice a little sadness in his tone. See,...