How Do You Define Friendship?

Living in New York City was a fantasy that became a reality for me in July 2001. Coming from a small town in Texas, I personally didn’t have too much to hope for in life but there was one voice that always screamed the loudest saying, “You can do it! There’s more for you! Don’t give in!” But it wasn’t the little voice inside me, it was an even smaller voice but it came from the...

Roommate Confessions

Every once in a while I sit in front of my computer and think about blog topics. Should I write a blog on “How To Tell If Your Boyfriend Is Gay” or maybe “The Top 5 Signs Your Child Is A Flaming Homosexual“? But every once in while I’ll hear the sweet sound of blogging success on its own, and today it came in the form of a toilet flush. Everyone in my inner-circle knows about my Asian...

Dating A Dominican Hottie: Sex With A Younger Man

At the ripe age of 34 I’m discovering that dating can actually be a fun experience and for me–the roller coaster adventure-ride has just begun. It’s no longer about nerves, expectations or “pretending” to be something or some one I’m not–it’s about being authentic and experiencing the moment and if you’re doing it right, can be thrilling, sexy and...

What’s Your Dating Scehdule?

One of the best reasons to live in New York City are the men. At any given time you can run into a Greek, Italian, or Latin man and have your choice of dating one or all. And what’s even better is they can introduce you to a world you’ve never known–whether it’s because of their culture, job, or just their interests. But when it comes down to it–no matter who you decide to date, how do...

He Wants To Be Your Plastic G.I. Joe

I met Chetan (pronounced like Nathan but with a CH) last summer when he was in an Off-Broadway musical that my friend Nate was musically directing. I had a small crush on him and did my best to make him notice me…but he seemed more interested in other things (like dying children in Africa or the water shortage in Iraq) so my crush eventually withered and died. Little did I know that since then he’s been...