Are You a Homo?

A few months ago, I interviewed New York City’s Sherry Vine for my book. I came across her Telephone video parody on YouTube and knew she had to be in my life. Not sure if she needed another Mexican in her world, I called her up and she agreed to the interview. Personally, I’ve always believed that talented people know other talented people--and since I have no talents, it’s no wonder I’m a...

How To Reconnect After a Fight

When dating, isn’t fighting easy? Fights pop up so frequently and over “real stuff” or at least it feels real at the moment, like directions to a place, no tweeting at dinner, and the ever-so-popular, “I wanna orgasm first!” And we don’t need practice when spewing out words drenched in hate, disgust, or quoting stuff Skeletor from He-Man would say! It just comes out naturally,...

Suffering, just like Carrie Bradshaw

Since the creation of the Sex and the City series on HBO, there have been many, many dating and social advancements. One, the idea that love can happen and will be waiting around the corner was reintroduced and reinforced. Second, the world saw how fabulous it is to date in New York but were also sympathetic to the duds we have roaming the streets. But, there were a few negative side effects to Sex and the City....

Dating Stuff: The Things About Dating You Ought To Know (eBook)

A book on dating. Well, the process of self-discovery didn’t come easy. It came with frustration, plenty of lonely nights in a cold, empty bed and even a few nights in bed with someone I didn’t really want there—although; child, the sex was good! But what was keeping me from meeting and dating someone special? Sure, it was baggage, but how to work through it; I couldn’t watch Oprah 24/7. So I kept a...