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Dating in New York City is a hard–Gay Dating in New York City is even harder. So what’s needed to make it a successful night? These 3 key elements can’t guarantee a smashing date, but it can at least get things off to a great start: good teeth, fluffy hair, and sexy underwear. Last Saturday I double booked; I had a date with my boyfriend and another guy from San Francisco. (I’ll explain)
There was a Gay Tweet Up at Boxers NYC–New York’s newest Gay Sports Bars. What? You didn’t think Gays watched sports? Neither do I honestly, I think it’s just an excuse to create a bar where the wait staff and bartenders are required to prance around in jock straps–and this was exactly the case. Thank goodness for Gay Sports Bars!
Once I told my boyfriend that we’d go on our “official date night” after the tweet up, I knew I had to wear sexy underwear to the joint because let’s face it–sexiness starts underneath. Reaching for my 2xist Camo No Show Briefs that I got from TheMensUnderWearStore.com I knew I was ready for battle! In my mind, I knew how things were going down–at a Gay bar in New York City–and I wanted to be prepared. Once we entered the bar, people recognized Nandoism and they came to say hello, but once they got a look at my boyfriend, the party for Nandoism was over and the celebration for Marin_NYC began. My boyfriend is hot and people flock to hot. Me, I’m funny, people will want a joke or two, maybe even stick around for an anecdote but once you spot hotness, funny just ain’t cut’n it no more and they move on. This time would be different, I was wearing my sexy undies which allowed me to play a little sociological game with the Gays.
Scientists have proven that there’s a direct correlation between a person’s self-esteem and the type of attention they get. if someone thinks they’re a 10; they attract a 10. If someone feels like a 4, they look for other 4s but settle for less, like a 2 or 1, if a 4 doesn’t reciprocate. My boyfriend is a hot 9 and I’m a sultry 7. What? I know my place. You should check out “The Three Rules of Dating a Hot Guy” for more info on this topic. As the night progressed and my boyfriend had a swarm of men around him, I saw his face–he was nervous; this new found attention was something he didn’t crave or understand what do to with. His shy demeanor and his huge camera made him approachable. And the Gays approached.
Nando: Work it.
Boyfriend: Why?
Nando: I need new boots for the winter and your photo money can pay for them.
Boyfriend: Oh.
He booked a few photo shoots and received several referrals that night. And me? I was testing my underwear theory. If I’m wearing something that makes me feel sexy and confident, then that’ll shine through. So I put the humor on hold and just worked “me” and the powerful feeling I had knowing I felt good. Silly how a nice new pair of sexy underwear can make you feel like, but it’s true. I never paid too much attention to underwear before, but one of my exes was a total underwear guy. He was all about the fabric, the feel, the experience. Some of that rubbed off on me, I guess that relationship did have its good points. I can’t lie. No one hit on me, (not even a little wink) but, I felt sexy, standing there having a good time with new twitter friends as I shot intimate glances to my boyfriend from across the room that said, “I love you, I want you, I need boots!”
How does sexy underwear make you feel? Leave a comment.
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“What? You didn’t think Gays watched sports? Neither do I honestly, I think it’s just an excuse to create a bar where the wait staff and bartenders are required to prance around in jock straps–and this was exactly the case.”
1) Gays do watch sports. I know many of them and I sure you would have seen quite a few at this bar if you weren’t….well anyway. Gays DO watch sports (do us the favor of not making the obvious “water sports” joke as though you’re the first to have made it).
2) Jock Straps…I’m shocked every day I learn that people still wear these early 19th-Century contraptions. There is a such a thing as compression gear, which gives support and prevents muscle fatigue. In recent years, it’s becoming more likely to be seen on some queen crusing the locker room in her local gym/bathhouse and in porn than in an actual sports locker room.
Oh please–get a grip sister. Learn to laugh and relax.
I have several gay friends who are on team sports–this is a blog for fun folks–let’s rock it.
This is the first time i read about gay dating.I do agree that some cloth can make you feel much better, but compare with sex underware,i prefer to have a sex body.
I don’t know where people get this idea that gay men don’t love sports. Gay men are the wildest most rambunctious sports fans that you will ever see. Where I live in the Philippines most male cheerleaders are gay so they can get close to the players. And if you go to a professional basketball game you will see all of the gay fans in a huge mob sitting behind the backboards. I’ve been told by one of the players that I train that the league gives them discounted or complimentary tickets since they make so much noise shrieking, squealing, and jumping up and down to make the games even more exciting. Personally I cannot stop laughing when they start really getting into the action so it’s often like you are getting two shows in one
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Gay dating can be a lot of fun – I’ve watched my mate do it and he always has a blast (and always finds the hotties!!)
And sexy underwear is a must !! If I’m going to wear a sexy thong for the night, I know it’s going to be entertaining ! Sexier the lingerie – the sexier you feel ‘cos you just know you’re working it
Just my two cents here