Comments on: How to Lose Your Boyfriend http://nandoism.com/2010/07/23/how-to-lose-your-boyfriend/ Dating and relationship tips/advice for people who are single, married, dating, living together, breaking up or divorced. Sat, 04 Feb 2012 22:07:09 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Brady Hulsizer http://nandoism.com/2010/07/23/how-to-lose-your-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-1611 Brady Hulsizer Sun, 01 Aug 2010 19:53:05 +0000 http://nandoism.com/?p=1445#comment-1611 Such a really good discussion you all have happening. I like the mix of good and correct information together with a few intellectual thoughts. It really is wonderful to be able to finally come across excellent articles where I think I could believe in the text as well as respect the individuals that publish it. With all the web waste nowadays I always value finding some real voices online. Thank you for posting and continue the good work, please!! Such a really good discussion you all have happening. I like the mix of good and correct information together with a few intellectual thoughts. It really is wonderful to be able to finally come across excellent articles where I think I could believe in the text as well as respect the individuals that publish it. With all the web waste nowadays I always value finding some real voices online. Thank you for posting and continue the good work, please!!

]]> By: Mike (@tazz602) http://nandoism.com/2010/07/23/how-to-lose-your-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-1515 Mike (@tazz602) Sun, 25 Jul 2010 15:16:27 +0000 http://nandoism.com/?p=1445#comment-1515 Great post - great tips from you and the other commentators. One thing I will add, from a long term perspective, Don't take him for granted and assume he's the same person today as he was a year, two years, five years, 16 years ago. Always listen to him, acknowledge him, make him feel important and give his ideas a chance as he expresses how he wants to redecorate the living room - AGAIN. Great post – great tips from you and the other commentators. One thing I will add, from a long term perspective, Don’t take him for granted and assume he’s the same person today as he was a year, two years, five years, 16 years ago. Always listen to him, acknowledge him, make him feel important and give his ideas a chance as he expresses how he wants to redecorate the living room – AGAIN.

]]> By: Alyson http://nandoism.com/2010/07/23/how-to-lose-your-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-1513 Alyson Sat, 24 Jul 2010 18:17:27 +0000 http://nandoism.com/?p=1445#comment-1513 One thing I think is important: give sex a chance. In other words, if your partner initiates and you aren't necessarily in the mood, give it a chance anyway. Not saying every time, but sometimes instead of "I have a headache" just go with it! Can't tell you how many headaches I've had that magically go away... ;) Basically, if you aren't onthe mood, give them a chance to get you there! .-= Alyson´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheGlossMenagerie/~3/_nc5xeVQEpI/pardon-dust.html" rel="nofollow">Pardon the Dust</a> =-. One thing I think is important: give sex a chance. In other words, if your partner initiates and you aren’t necessarily in the mood, give it a chance anyway. Not saying every time, but sometimes instead of “I have a headache” just go with it! Can’t tell you how many headaches I’ve had that magically go away… ;) Basically, if you aren’t onthe mood, give them a chance to get you there!
.-= Alyson´s last blog ..Pardon the Dust =-.

]]> By: nando http://nandoism.com/2010/07/23/how-to-lose-your-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-1508 nando Fri, 23 Jul 2010 22:36:24 +0000 http://nandoism.com/?p=1445#comment-1508 Wow, I love your insight to life. You are working my BLOG over! Wow, I love your insight to life. You are working my BLOG over!

]]> By: nando http://nandoism.com/2010/07/23/how-to-lose-your-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-1507 nando Fri, 23 Jul 2010 22:35:58 +0000 http://nandoism.com/?p=1445#comment-1507 I like these tips--you are SO on the money! I love it! I like these tips–you are SO on the money! I love it!

]]> By: nando http://nandoism.com/2010/07/23/how-to-lose-your-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-1504 nando Fri, 23 Jul 2010 22:33:12 +0000 http://nandoism.com/?p=1445#comment-1504 We are bad, right? bad to the bone! But they love us! We are bad, right? bad to the bone! But they love us!

]]> By: Lena.FM http://nandoism.com/2010/07/23/how-to-lose-your-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-1501 Lena.FM Fri, 23 Jul 2010 19:16:35 +0000 http://nandoism.com/?p=1445#comment-1501 "I get so wrapped up in “Nandoism” that I sometimes forget he’s an equal partner in the relationship and not just a fan who forgot to go home." *looking at the floor* I do that! Crap. .-= Lena.FM´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ThankYouForYourSex/~3/XWhg9kIdnV0/" rel="nofollow">Six months of the same man – confessions of a spoiled brat</a> =-. “I get so wrapped up in “Nandoism” that I sometimes forget he’s an equal partner in the relationship and not just a fan who forgot to go home.” *looking at the floor*

I do that! Crap.
.-= Lena.FM´s last blog ..Six months of the same man – confessions of a spoiled brat =-.

]]> By: Don http://nandoism.com/2010/07/23/how-to-lose-your-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-1498 Don Fri, 23 Jul 2010 17:47:07 +0000 http://nandoism.com/?p=1445#comment-1498 Love it...I was talking about this with someone last night...you hit many of them but I also want to add, 1) never tell a man what he can and cannot do. Gay or straight men have pride, and telling him what he can and cannot do with make him run quick. 2) Men need space- it is great to spend time together but make sure you give him time to go spend with the guys 3) Don't fuss - Men don't like to fuss...leave the drama with yo mama....ok I'm done. :O) Love it…I was talking about this with someone last night…you hit many of them but I also want to add, 1) never tell a man what he can and cannot do. Gay or straight men have pride, and telling him what he can and cannot do with make him run quick. 2) Men need space- it is great to spend time together but make sure you give him time to go spend with the guys 3) Don’t fuss – Men don’t like to fuss…leave the drama with yo mama….ok I’m done. :O)

]]> By: Wilmaryad http://nandoism.com/2010/07/23/how-to-lose-your-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-1497 Wilmaryad Fri, 23 Jul 2010 16:33:30 +0000 http://nandoism.com/?p=1445#comment-1497 July was also the month I got dumped, a year ago. Prophetic, aren't we? 1. Don't say you wanted to commit suicide last night, especially after talking to him that very night. He'll think your presence matters little. 2. Don't be susceptible: if you visit his blog, don't assume some of his commenting friends hate you, especially when they don't even know of your existence. 3. Don't be sarcastically mean: Flirtatious sarcasm can spice up the daily grind of the relationship, but degrading sarcasm isn't acceptable. Now, if only I had NOT stayed when I was seeing the guy surrounded by many Chinese flags waving at me! I had spotted all 3 points mentioned above in the guy and still didn't cut it off right there. Love is, too often, stupid. .-= Wilmaryad´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/GayArabGuy/~3/QXC0CTONmVw/g-spot-on-man-stands-for-his-gut.html" rel="nofollow">G-Spot on a Man Stands for His Gut</a> =-. July was also the month I got dumped, a year ago. Prophetic, aren’t we?

1. Don’t say you wanted to commit suicide last night, especially after talking to him that very night. He’ll think your presence matters little.

2. Don’t be susceptible: if you visit his blog, don’t assume some of his commenting friends hate you, especially when they don’t even know of your existence.

3. Don’t be sarcastically mean: Flirtatious sarcasm can spice up the daily grind of the relationship, but degrading sarcasm isn’t acceptable.

Now, if only I had NOT stayed when I was seeing the guy surrounded by many Chinese flags waving at me! I had spotted all 3 points mentioned above in the guy and still didn’t cut it off right there.

Love is, too often, stupid.
.-= Wilmaryad´s last blog ..G-Spot on a Man Stands for His Gut =-.

]]> By: Caleb http://nandoism.com/2010/07/23/how-to-lose-your-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-1495 Caleb Fri, 23 Jul 2010 16:01:12 +0000 http://nandoism.com/?p=1445#comment-1495 As an (occasional) boyfriend, I'll give you 3 more! 1. Don't be a boring, whiny, uninteresting judger who judges with extra judgery everything your BF does. 2. Don't throw crazy, psycho, throwdown tantrums over nothing. Or key cars. (See my entry 58 for details if you want) 3. Don't refuse oral sex. Seriously- might seem small or shallow, but it's important. Also, adding oral sex to driving earns you bonus points that can negate other negative behavior. Nice writing! Caleb .-= Caleb´s last blog ..<a href="http://calebshreves.blogspot.com/2010/07/entry-60-let-me-put-my-patriotism-in.html" rel="nofollow">Entry 60- Let Me Put My Patriotism In You</a> =-. As an (occasional) boyfriend, I’ll give you 3 more!

1. Don’t be a boring, whiny, uninteresting judger who judges with extra judgery everything your BF does.

2. Don’t throw crazy, psycho, throwdown tantrums over nothing. Or key cars. (See my entry 58 for details if you want)

3. Don’t refuse oral sex. Seriously- might seem small or shallow, but it’s important. Also, adding oral sex to driving earns you bonus points that can negate other negative behavior.

Nice writing!

Caleb
.-= Caleb´s last blog ..Entry 60- Let Me Put My Patriotism In You =-.

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