Comments on: Gay Dating for Dummies

By: Roque Caston

Roque Caston — Mon, 07 Mar 2011 22:16:43 +0000

You know what Nando. You brought up some very interesting points. For me being 19 years old and completely open about myself, I sometimes think about the older generation. For the young ones, they turn to sex in the form of comfort and the only way to find love, and be in a relationship. Also, the young ones keep their guard because they are afraid that an older male is going to take advantage of him.

But what happens if it’s the other way around? It’s very interesting. Excellent post Nando. Keep doing your thing. <3

By: Shannon LC Cate

Shannon LC Cate — Wed, 02 Feb 2011 00:59:07 +0000

Work to become the person you want to be with.

By: Mike (@tazz602)

Mike (@tazz602) — Mon, 17 May 2010 17:45:13 +0000

My tip: My partner says “if you want to be thin, eat what a thin person eats” OK – that doesn’t work all the time, but the same advice applies to relationships. Seek out LONG term couples, talk to them, make friendships (not that kind) and see and learn what they do, see what a real relationship is like. (It’s not all about the sex baby)

Thanks to HIV/AIDS an entire generation that could have given advice and passed on knowledge, was decimated. This hurt those coming out after the social/sexual revolutions of the 60s and 70s.

Basically your generation, Nando, was robbed of advice, experience, knowledge of where we came from and those kind of dating life stories that would have helped you grow. People like me, the end of the Baby Boomer generation, were on the edge of that revolution, left floundering, wondering what we are really suppose to do now.

You are so right, we’ve never had that social structure that lends itself to passing on experience and advice like the heteros do. We do need to make ourselves available to the young gays. Thank you for doing that with your blog.

By: nando

nando — Mon, 17 May 2010 17:25:39 +0000

We are doing a lot, hu? SO much naughtiness, so little time!

By: Lea

Lea — Mon, 01 Feb 2010 01:37:41 +0000

I think I’m going to laugh at this idea. What were the gays are doing these days.

By: nando

nando — Thu, 28 Jan 2010 14:19:55 +0000

I’m so glad you found this blog Andrew,
I think readers are going to stay tuned just for your comment.
You are very poised, your writing is elegant and you just sound super hot!
Child, rock on!

By: Andrew Gillman

Andrew Gillman — Thu, 28 Jan 2010 10:09:03 +0000

One of the things that daunted me about being gay was how I was going to cope with all the sleeping around since at heart I am very loyal, emotionally-involved guy. I saw the ‘lifestyle’ as inimicable to what I believed. But then a very wise friend of mine told me that you don’t have to go along with the crowd – be gay on your terms was what she told me and it was the best piece of advice I ever got, and definitely advice I’d pass onto any and every young gay guy…. don’t let the crowd sway what you do but be true to yourself and live life on your terms… it may sound like a great hoary cliche but it empowered me to live a life that’s made me very happy. Yes it had its share of one night stands, but ultimately I stuck to my guns and it’s paid off in spades (oops another cliche)….

By: nando

nando — Fri, 15 Jan 2010 14:06:31 +0000

You got it! thanks for stopping by!

By: Sex Positions

Sex Positions — Fri, 15 Jan 2010 09:57:02 +0000

Keep on the good job! Sex Positions

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